Families are sharing the stories of U.S. service members killed or still missing in the Iran war, turning public attention from the battlefield to the lives interrupted by the conflict. Among those being remembered are a teenager, a man preparing to marry, and a father of two described by loved ones as fearless.

One of the names highlighted is Tyler James Feehan. According to those close to him, Feehan approached life with energy and ambition, and his deployment was only one part of a much larger future he had mapped out. Loved ones said he planned to get married, complete an MBA and finish law school after returning home.

The emerging portraits of the dead and missing show how different their lives were, even as their families now face the same uncertainty and grief. The description of one service member as a devoted father of two and another as a young fiancé underscores how the war’s toll is being measured not only in military losses, but also in broken family plans and unrealized milestones.

As more information becomes public, relatives and friends are focusing on the people behind the headlines. Their memories emphasize service, promise and the personal futures that were tied to this deployment before the Iran war became a defining tragedy for multiple American families.