A woman from Wrexham has spoken publicly about being diagnosed with genital herpes, saying she is no longer ashamed of the STI. In the BBC report, Melys described the emotional impact of the diagnosis, including feelings of grief, anger and denial, and said she felt detached from herself.
Her account highlights the stigma that can still surround genital herpes, even though it is a common sexual health condition. By sharing her experience, she is drawing attention to the mental and emotional strain that can follow a diagnosis, as well as the difficulty many people face when talking about it openly.
The report also included comment from Dr Olwen Williams, chair of HIV charity Fast Track Cymru and a former consultant in sexual health and HIV. She said people with genital herpes should still be able to have sexual relationships, underlining that a diagnosis does not prevent intimacy, while noting that people are given advice on managing the condition.
The story reflects a broader effort to reduce shame around sexually transmitted infections and encourage more informed conversations about sexual health. For people living with genital herpes, the discussion centers not only on symptoms but also on confidence, relationships and the need for understanding rather than judgment.
